So from my pervious post on my update about how I was stressing out and wanted to change
my degree and so on. Turns out the Career Counselor was no help at all, basically
expressing the vibe to be that I must be very stubborn? Well, I had a sarcasm moment
to my self-saying “That was helpful.” She was trying to grasp of what I’m into
but I have way to much experience as well as what seemed to be interesting that
I could do. Overall, the result was change your mange that could cause myself to
stay in college longer or find a job before I could finish my degree and that
might help me. With
my disorder/disability makes it harder because I don’t if I can do it, that’s part
of my stubbornness. After all the stressing, I still had no idea what to do. I told
my mom all about it, she agrees that I’m way to stubborn and proud that I’m way
to experience, but she believes that I could finish my degree with I high
hopes. Well at this point no matter how much no one understands, I’m failing
this one class I need to pass to move on in the degree program (sociology), I
asked my advisor and he said I could still graduate in Fall 2015. So I
explained that I might have to retake this class but I would have only two more
classes and two more for the elective also one more for my minor. That brought
my hopes up to know I almost done, however, I still need: internships and a job that I
could be happy about to work for right after I graduate even if involves moving.
That is another problem I am worried about, moving away for work and not know if
I would still have friends and/or if they would support me on the move and
still stay contact possible visit each other.
All I know is I really going to try even harder to make sure my degree comes
before everything, and time management like I use to. I stopped because I wasn’t
sure where and what to do with it in my room at home compare how I had it in
the dorm at my freshmen pervious university.
Tonight (11/29), I just emailed my professor on the a paper I'm interested to do
after the past week I could figure out what topic for the survey, so now I am
going to clean my room. My mom is trying to do some Winter cleaning (Spring
cleaning but during the Winter season), plus would help bring some peace in the
house before the New Year.
My said I could rearrange my room because she has a gift for my room, so that
means upgrade my room for a mature look, organize everything from closet to room,
and clean out my room to be clean. So might help me distress and find a way to
set up my study/ time management. That’s what I’m about to do, hopefully I can get the answer from my professor
telling me that I finally got it or I’m still going to so feel even more dumber.
Showing posts with label Stress. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Stress. Show all posts
Saturday, November 29, 2014
Monday, November 24, 2014
My College Update, Fall Term 2014!
Well, what a year I have been just stressing out back and forth, and having melt downs as well. For the first time my stress got to me so bad, I had a minor rash, horrible margin, mood swing, and noticing some grey hair (I'm only 22 years old about to turn 23yrs old in Dec 23rd.)
*mentioning of prayer is based on the religious belief my family and friends are in(Catholic/Christians),and same-time I also believe things happen for a reason. I respect and understand other beliefs, you can replace the meaning to what you practice/belief*
This Fall I had a exciting view for myself to finish all my classes with a passing grade and improve myself on the way to be more mature about my lifestyle, now that I'm working part-time and a quick cash side work as a club promoter.
Well everything was going okay, notice that the DRC (Disability Resource Center) could not get a hold of a note taker for me, which means I am screwed. Meanwhile I was had to try to study with what I could take notes of which was only what I could comprehend. I have this one class that's is the first class I need for my Major Degree Program in Sociology, However, I took this class back in the Spring Term 2014 and failed it. Now well lets just say I am in that same struggle boat.
Same Professor and everything, I study the best I could and well grade wise wasn't so well, but better than what I did back in Spring. I know I had a few faults because I procrastinated but also I couldn't comprehend what do to for most of the homework with my disability, and not having help with tutoring and paper revises like I had when I was in the State/Community College. I even applied for a note taker, unfortunately the school don't hire note taker like they did at the community college, they just ask if anyone in the class I am in if anyone wants to volunteer, which no ones would unless the disability of person could not take their own notes. Now because I know I have no hope in passing this class, my other classes are getting affected too.
Its like just when I thought I had everything handled and settle, I somehow screwed up. My mom notice that I'm stressing out more and more has the time ticks down to almost finals. She worries that my health is getting affected from all the stress and trying what I can with my disability to pass just one class before other classes. She said she'll support me no matter what, thou she sacrifice to help finical with me, so I could finish college. I even have few friends and family as well as my mom to pray that something better would work out for me.
Well after so much stress and trying not to make the same mistake I done back in Stetson. After class today (November 24th, 2014), just before our Thanksgiving Break (which I still have class work to do, bummer), She asked how I was doing in class (the hardest that I have been stressing about,) I told her that I so done and stressed out about this I know my grade is a another fail. She was shock because not only this is her first semester as a transfer student but that the I had taken the class before and still no improvement. She said why stress on a major that your not achieving, I changed my major for next term after this class too, You should go check out the Career Center to help you. I went there last week because there is no way, I could use this major in something I know more about. I worked in the Hospitality business since I was 16 and I'm almost in my mid 30s because I worked to save up for college. I went in did this career interest test and talked about my skills and what I know as well what I would I like to learn more about to improve my passion/life. So they helped me change my major to _so and so__ since its similar to Hospitality Management but they don't have it as a major. Since you have very great social networking skills and you know more of what events going on in the city as well your working for a nightclub that had performs of famous musicians also you know most local musicians in the city and go to festivals/events. maybe they could help you find a career path towards that because again why Stress over something you stuck again when you can change for what you know and accomplish that faster and your grade/gpa would be exactly where you want. also you would want to study on it more because its want your interested not what you enjoy to read during your down time. Like I was into sociology major because of what I found interest during my down time but now I notice, I could major in what I'm already doing and still enjoy sociological article reading during my down time. Some people are great at their major because the already have the eye on what they want to be, rather like us it takes one stressed out class to make us realize oops.
Good Luck and let me know if they helped you out and what have you decided on.
After all the stressing, the crying, and sleepless nights I gone through; it suddenly hit me after what she said this might be the answer I have been needing. Right when we parted our ways, I went straight to the career center, set my appointment, and nervous as I was yet excited that this is the change I been needing. Hopefully this does solve my problem and could have my path to finish college with a degree and enjoy my life.
Beside other personal problems I am going through, I really praying and wanting this to be the sunlight to my horrible storm. If this works out for me and everything goes smoothly with the school, I decided to do some improvements to myself meaning I am going to be more mature about my lifestyle since I'll be 23yrs old in Dec 23rd. That means when Next Year hits and the new Spring term begins, I'm going to have to: manage my time better, know when to yes or no to things, if I have a question no matter how stupid I know I may sound ask or ask during office hours( I was planning on doing but the hours were during my work and/or class hours), have time for myself (like go for a walk, read a non-class reading book, visit friends, have lunch/brunch with my mom/friends, or even a night out non club related like n the weekends. Speaking of nightclub promoting, they are very supportive that I'm in college and I only do their Wednesday and Friday night, which is no biggie because I can leave after guest list ends and find out if I get pay or not then leave. Still I would tell them the heads up so I don't have to wait in the back room till they get done with a meeting with whoever.
I will soon what I do want to improve myself since I am getting older because I need to grow up but I can be myself just 23yrs old. So stay tune for that and other post I will be posting soon.
Have you ever gone through anything like I have gone though? let me know down below in the comments.
*mentioning of prayer is based on the religious belief my family and friends are in(Catholic/Christians),and same-time I also believe things happen for a reason. I respect and understand other beliefs, you can replace the meaning to what you practice/belief*
This Fall I had a exciting view for myself to finish all my classes with a passing grade and improve myself on the way to be more mature about my lifestyle, now that I'm working part-time and a quick cash side work as a club promoter.
Well everything was going okay, notice that the DRC (Disability Resource Center) could not get a hold of a note taker for me, which means I am screwed. Meanwhile I was had to try to study with what I could take notes of which was only what I could comprehend. I have this one class that's is the first class I need for my Major Degree Program in Sociology, However, I took this class back in the Spring Term 2014 and failed it. Now well lets just say I am in that same struggle boat.
Same Professor and everything, I study the best I could and well grade wise wasn't so well, but better than what I did back in Spring. I know I had a few faults because I procrastinated but also I couldn't comprehend what do to for most of the homework with my disability, and not having help with tutoring and paper revises like I had when I was in the State/Community College. I even applied for a note taker, unfortunately the school don't hire note taker like they did at the community college, they just ask if anyone in the class I am in if anyone wants to volunteer, which no ones would unless the disability of person could not take their own notes. Now because I know I have no hope in passing this class, my other classes are getting affected too.
Its like just when I thought I had everything handled and settle, I somehow screwed up. My mom notice that I'm stressing out more and more has the time ticks down to almost finals. She worries that my health is getting affected from all the stress and trying what I can with my disability to pass just one class before other classes. She said she'll support me no matter what, thou she sacrifice to help finical with me, so I could finish college. I even have few friends and family as well as my mom to pray that something better would work out for me.
Well after so much stress and trying not to make the same mistake I done back in Stetson. After class today (November 24th, 2014), just before our Thanksgiving Break (which I still have class work to do, bummer), She asked how I was doing in class (the hardest that I have been stressing about,) I told her that I so done and stressed out about this I know my grade is a another fail. She was shock because not only this is her first semester as a transfer student but that the I had taken the class before and still no improvement. She said why stress on a major that your not achieving, I changed my major for next term after this class too, You should go check out the Career Center to help you. I went there last week because there is no way, I could use this major in something I know more about. I worked in the Hospitality business since I was 16 and I'm almost in my mid 30s because I worked to save up for college. I went in did this career interest test and talked about my skills and what I know as well what I would I like to learn more about to improve my passion/life. So they helped me change my major to _so and so__ since its similar to Hospitality Management but they don't have it as a major. Since you have very great social networking skills and you know more of what events going on in the city as well your working for a nightclub that had performs of famous musicians also you know most local musicians in the city and go to festivals/events. maybe they could help you find a career path towards that because again why Stress over something you stuck again when you can change for what you know and accomplish that faster and your grade/gpa would be exactly where you want. also you would want to study on it more because its want your interested not what you enjoy to read during your down time. Like I was into sociology major because of what I found interest during my down time but now I notice, I could major in what I'm already doing and still enjoy sociological article reading during my down time. Some people are great at their major because the already have the eye on what they want to be, rather like us it takes one stressed out class to make us realize oops.
Good Luck and let me know if they helped you out and what have you decided on.
After all the stressing, the crying, and sleepless nights I gone through; it suddenly hit me after what she said this might be the answer I have been needing. Right when we parted our ways, I went straight to the career center, set my appointment, and nervous as I was yet excited that this is the change I been needing. Hopefully this does solve my problem and could have my path to finish college with a degree and enjoy my life.
Beside other personal problems I am going through, I really praying and wanting this to be the sunlight to my horrible storm. If this works out for me and everything goes smoothly with the school, I decided to do some improvements to myself meaning I am going to be more mature about my lifestyle since I'll be 23yrs old in Dec 23rd. That means when Next Year hits and the new Spring term begins, I'm going to have to: manage my time better, know when to yes or no to things, if I have a question no matter how stupid I know I may sound ask or ask during office hours( I was planning on doing but the hours were during my work and/or class hours), have time for myself (like go for a walk, read a non-class reading book, visit friends, have lunch/brunch with my mom/friends, or even a night out non club related like n the weekends. Speaking of nightclub promoting, they are very supportive that I'm in college and I only do their Wednesday and Friday night, which is no biggie because I can leave after guest list ends and find out if I get pay or not then leave. Still I would tell them the heads up so I don't have to wait in the back room till they get done with a meeting with whoever.
I will soon what I do want to improve myself since I am getting older because I need to grow up but I can be myself just 23yrs old. So stay tune for that and other post I will be posting soon.
Have you ever gone through anything like I have gone though? let me know down below in the comments.
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Lack of Posts
Hey everyone I'm very sorry about not posting anything for my blog. I have been so busy at my new university. (finally decided to go to University of North Florida (UNF)). the same time I actually cracked the screen of my laptop with the force of my thumb (the almighty hulk thumb, lol) by the way my laptop is an hp not a mac. Since the first day of classes I have been using the library computer, which i don't mind but i love my freedom of my laptop plus I could use it in class. I just finding a place to fix my laptop in the meanwhile you should definitely follow my Instagram, Tumblr, twitter, Facebook page, and everything else which I have on the side bar.
I also wanted to do blog by video ( I am a talker which makes me a slow at typing(sometimes), lol) plus with me doing my blog talks you can hear and/or see my expressions, voice change for each person, the tone, my voice ;), etc.
for those like reading my blog and/or follow me please in the comments tell me what could I talk about, if you prefer reading > video, or video<reading or both.
I don't have my list and I still remember all the topics and stories I want to share.
so don't worry.
I also wanted to do blog by video ( I am a talker which makes me a slow at typing(sometimes), lol) plus with me doing my blog talks you can hear and/or see my expressions, voice change for each person, the tone, my voice ;), etc.
for those like reading my blog and/or follow me please in the comments tell me what could I talk about, if you prefer reading > video, or video<reading or both.
I don't have my list and I still remember all the topics and stories I want to share.
so don't worry.
Friday, August 9, 2013
Monday, May 13, 2013
Skin Care Tips!
Have you ever wonder why you have acne on different area of you face?
for example: you might have a lot on you right cheeks, three on you chin and one between your eyebrows?
Well I have the site for you.
I always under why I still have acne on random spots of my face and I make sure I have a morning and night routine to wash my face, Moisturize my face in the morning and night, Not I repeat Not to sleep with makeup on, Trying Not to touch my face(still hard to do), and change my pillows.
Besides a Very Well Diet and Exercise.
Everyone skin is different from color, blood type(yes blood type also effect your skin, diet and body), and skin care.
Here are some sites for you to look into if you have any problem and/or wonder why taking care of yourself and still no clear face.
Acne Face Map: This will explain why you have acne in certain area/s of your face.
Meaning of each Skin Type: This will explain your skin type
Skin type test: This test is similar to what a Dermatologist would ask you. Still have a Dermatologist check you out.
Skin care for Blood Types (with Beauty tips): This is interesting it explains the skin care routine and beauty tips for each Blood Type.
Drink Lots of Water!
Fun Fact: Our body is made up of 70% of water. That is about as similar to Earth which is 70% water too.
Cool, huh!
Think of our Earth when you drink water, must Stay Alive.
*Disco Dancing and imaging John Travolta during he movie Staying Alive.*
"I'm a-stayin' alive, stayin' alive
Ah, ah, ah, ah, stayin' alive, stayin' alive
Ah, ah, ah, ah, stayin' ali-i-i-i-ive"
Lyrics of BEE GEES "Staying Alive"
This is not just for Girls this includes Guys as well how wants to maintain a well image.
What is your Skin Care Routine?
Do you have acne that you stubborn time with?
Did Disco danced too?
for example: you might have a lot on you right cheeks, three on you chin and one between your eyebrows?
Well I have the site for you.
I always under why I still have acne on random spots of my face and I make sure I have a morning and night routine to wash my face, Moisturize my face in the morning and night, Not I repeat Not to sleep with makeup on, Trying Not to touch my face(still hard to do), and change my pillows.
Besides a Very Well Diet and Exercise.
Everyone skin is different from color, blood type(yes blood type also effect your skin, diet and body), and skin care.
Here are some sites for you to look into if you have any problem and/or wonder why taking care of yourself and still no clear face.
Acne Face Map: This will explain why you have acne in certain area/s of your face.
Meaning of each Skin Type: This will explain your skin type
Skin type test: This test is similar to what a Dermatologist would ask you. Still have a Dermatologist check you out.
Skin care for Blood Types (with Beauty tips): This is interesting it explains the skin care routine and beauty tips for each Blood Type.
Drink Lots of Water!
Fun Fact: Our body is made up of 70% of water. That is about as similar to Earth which is 70% water too.
Cool, huh!
Think of our Earth when you drink water, must Stay Alive.
*Disco Dancing and imaging John Travolta during he movie Staying Alive.*
"I'm a-stayin' alive, stayin' alive
Ah, ah, ah, ah, stayin' alive, stayin' alive
Ah, ah, ah, ah, stayin' ali-i-i-i-ive"
Lyrics of BEE GEES "Staying Alive"
This is not just for Girls this includes Guys as well how wants to maintain a well image.
What is your Skin Care Routine?
Do you have acne that you stubborn time with?
Did Disco danced too?
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Stress Management
Stress can make you feel uncomfortable the feeling in other hand like you sick, weak, worried, overwhelmed and/or anger, etc.. its like a emotional roller coaster. Everyone goes through it even babies (which is not good).
Here are some links that I think could help you: just click on the title.
Stress Management
What I like to do to get my mind stress free:
- go to the beach to relax ( when its nice weather, and/or when I have the time/money for gas. I live like less then 45 min from the beach.)
- beside sleeping I'm talking about when I know I can sleep longer with out going anywhere I like to this pillow spray It helps me sleep deep and relaxed.
- take naps
- light a candle like LV , SV, or EM. I have LV and its lit up.
- take a bubble bath however I to tall for my tub so shower works and I use this soap for stress and if I want more sleep I use this soap for sleep.
- read book
- watching a childhood movie
- bike ride
- workout
- try to paint my nails is ends up a fail lol
- redo do my room
- blog
- spa day at home like these face masks.
- take notes of what I want to change or upgrade about my self. for example learn more vocab and use them, practice again pronouncing words correctly, save extra more money for fun things, etc...
- dance around sing to the top of my lungs.
Well this sums up about everything about stress and how to manage it. Stress happens to kids, adult, mostly teens, and of course young adult. its happens to Male and Female. So what do for stress relief that doesn't involve medicines. share them down below or in the facebook comment.
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Monday, December 10, 2012
Monday, October 29, 2012
Being Sick.....
I have been sick before, but this one was hurtful.
I have been resting in bed, drinking tea, water, and orange juice, and when I'm sick I usually don't eat much. I try to to more healthy like a salad.
I also try to some homework/studying, however, I couldn't concentrate on whatever.
Being sick makes me feel like I gained alot of weight, I would try to exercise, but I it hard to do anything movement because well my face hurts.
The hardest part of being sick or not for me is sleeping. I want to sleep or I will feel sleepy and when I try to sleep its impossible. Well I try drinking sleeping tea and/or my night meds and still can't sleep.
Even the meds doesn't help till like hours later.
Well I'm kinda feeling better, but still feel punch in the face and sleepless.
Being Sick ...... kinda sucks thou your body is rehealing/refreshing and preparing for anything to fight it off. Being sick is like you body is having a war the help you.
Have you ever been sick that you never felt before? What are somethings you do when you sick?
Hope yall feel better if your sick too.
Thursday, October 4, 2012
Eh day: another blah
Sept 30th, 2012
Today is one of those days for me where I don't feel like dressing up(which I have like nothing nice cause it has been awhile since I shopped for clothes) plus gained weight from stressing with school, and I just look like I just rolled out of bed and didn't make an effort to look somewhat good. Been feeling tired and just want things to get over, so I could enjoy the fun stuff I want to do like: join a sport team, travel, while traveling do crazy things like surf with the locals( still learning how to properly surf), scuba dive, hiking, kayak, ski/snowboarding, etc...
I know that school is really important for me, but I just wanna get it over with. I like school not going to lie I just hate it the system. I like to learn and makes me feel more knowledge and whats more interesting is talking to others and hearing and learning from their opinion. I can't stand learning from a book of one author (not books you read for pleasure) more like school books. it's one person opinion and i feel like that's the ONLY truth that we have to know. However, when you look at other authors with the same subject its like a pro and cons, and you would have many opinion of the subject.
Today is one of those days for me where I don't feel like dressing up(which I have like nothing nice cause it has been awhile since I shopped for clothes) plus gained weight from stressing with school, and I just look like I just rolled out of bed and didn't make an effort to look somewhat good. Been feeling tired and just want things to get over, so I could enjoy the fun stuff I want to do like: join a sport team, travel, while traveling do crazy things like surf with the locals( still learning how to properly surf), scuba dive, hiking, kayak, ski/snowboarding, etc...
I know that school is really important for me, but I just wanna get it over with. I like school not going to lie I just hate it the system. I like to learn and makes me feel more knowledge and whats more interesting is talking to others and hearing and learning from their opinion. I can't stand learning from a book of one author (not books you read for pleasure) more like school books. it's one person opinion and i feel like that's the ONLY truth that we have to know. However, when you look at other authors with the same subject its like a pro and cons, and you would have many opinion of the subject.
Monday, August 13, 2012
Coming soon/update
My laptop wasn't working very well, but instead of buying a new laptop (which I would get when I tranfer to College). I decieded to restarted my laptop back its manufacting setting and startover. its better now, but still needs some time to get started. Also I have finals this week and I planned to do some vlogs, blogs, and random videos after I finsh my finals. I would have time to hang with some friends since rest are still in highschool they start this week. I have plans for videos I want to do including back to school, the only down side is I won't be able to do outfits because I haven't been shopping because I been gaining weight. I still behind on my weight loss plan. which its just because i want to be skinny, its because I want to be healthy and active. the other day my friends and I went to the beach and later hit the pool and I haven't swimmed in a pool for a long time since maybe 1-2 yrs ago. After just swimming half a lap, I start to feel out of breath and very slow swimmer. So yea I just want to say whats up with an update.
and for those who are already started or starting school have a great back to school week.
Monday, December 26, 2011
Finals Exam Week!
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| this is to fun but so true. it can being scare like a horror movie. |
College Exams are like a test, but when its FINALS, its about studying your butt off for week to pass the class to move on to the next semister or graduate.
which means:
- studying all your subjects
- living in the library
- becoming an all nighter
- no party
- no distractions
- no drinking
- STUDY, STUDY,STUDY, & STUDY some more
some colleges like state"communtity" college, and community college require to take an exit exam depending on what subject and which state or county.
*Click on the colored underlined and it will take you to the link.
What causes the Stress? here the answer to that question.
What are the causes of exam stress?
here are some tips to get through finals exams, mid term exams, exams, or a quiz/test. etc...
Now for Some Stress Free Zone for After the Exams.
College Life - How To Reduce Stress in College Life
- The Human Brain: Relieve Stress
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