Monday, December 26, 2011

Finals Exam Week!


this is to fun but so true.
it can being scare like a horror movie.


College Exams are like a test, but when its FINALS, its about studying your butt off  for week to pass the class to move on to the next semister or graduate. 

which means:
  • studying all your subjects
  • living in the library
  • becoming an all nighter
  • no party
  • no distractions
  • no drinking
  • STUDY, STUDY,STUDY, & STUDY some more
some colleges like state"communtity" college, and community college require to take an exit exam depending on what subject and which state or county.

*Click on the colored underlined and it will take you to the link.
What causes the Stress? here the answer to that question.
 What are the causes of exam stress?


here are some tips to get through finals exams, mid term exams, exams, or a quiz/test. etc...
 Now for Some Stress Free Zone for After the Exams.

College Life - How To Reduce Stress in College Life
- The Human Brain: Relieve Stress

Friday, November 25, 2011

Where in the world is Bonita?

Me! lol




                My life is so busy even thou i just go to school. Its hard for me to keep up with school so i spen more time with school work then anything. My life is different but probaly the same to someone. for example 1out 200,000 (im not sure if this is true, i just made this up) anyways beside school i worry about everything my mom health, knowning and trying to get threw family problems, staying in touch with friends etc. i try not to just my emotions playing it cool and having a smile on my face. its hard enough when your mom had a brain surgey and her mind is different then before, famiy trying to saty in touch, having hard time getting things with this tough economy, etc. for one person like even at the age of 19 about to be 20 soon in almost 1 month is hard, im still like a kid but going through things that maybe 1 out of 6 person goes through. not only im focus in school, and trying to mange the family. im also looking after my health. i gain 45lbs after i was at the age of 17. i feel my emotions are going towards depressions. im not eatting right. my mom is scared and my teachers are noticing im look tired and depressed. 

im trying to eat healthy-- i love eating healthy--its just i keep eatung out like going to McDs alot only for lunch when i have lunch break in between classes. I spend money more on food then shopping.
 how sad.=(.
Im miss shopping, however, since i gian weight i cant buy clothes that i wanted and in my "normal size". so far im just wearing tshirts, same jeans, and only cute tops that fits. i remember going to my Dr. she said, my main problem is working out to burn calories. over all my stomach is in an okay size, just have to watch out for spicey food. I have acid reflex so if i eat something like pizza, or spicey food, i could get a bad stomach ache and cause myself a heartburn( it hurts like hell. like someone lit a fire in your heart). thats no problem i could manage to go around that. my problem is having healthy veggies, and fruit at my house. we have them but i still dont know why i dont go and grab them. i tend eat veggies and fruits when i else where. I am so werid. im also very picky its werid im might make a video about it cause if i type it its going to be a 16 chapter book. lol

I know i can a little bit lazy but i cant stand it if im lazy. is that normal? i love riding bikes better then goingt to the gym to ride the bikes there. however my bike is not working now. i think the heat melted the air tube or something cause i wanted to going ride it the other day and the tires are flat. wtf? but when we had that crazy heat over the summer i think that was cause it to be flat.
however, i want to keep that bike for when i go trail riding oneday cause i want to buy a hybrid bike, i was scared of those bike beacuse its so thin but they are just like a mountain bike and cross country bike. a hybid bike is those bike you see when people are riding pass you on the road, you see almost the same bike on the tour de france, and even "green" people ride to commute to places. thats the kind of bike i want to kinda commute to place. i kinda live in the middle of nowhere but i would like to take it with me to like a beach, sight seeing, etc.

im trying to make my self to go to the gym but it gets boring to me. plus i rather be playing outside with a soccer ball, or swimming etc.. but if only i had a workout buddy to help me push my limits in the gym.
last year i was the gym and i ran into a friend of mine and she help me in oneday. OMG my body ache the next day but i notice i looked so good.(that just one day of workout).
i even have workout dvds but for somereason i always laugh and feel like im making a fool of myself even thou i alone doing it in my house. lol weird right? My mom as a 80's/90's workout video that she used to get back in shape after she had me. My mom before marrige she was a size 00-2 and after she had me she was a size 00-2 agian. but now after her brain tumor surgrey and its also her 7year since that day. so happy to have her alive and okay. the only thing she feels like she 60yrs old, she gain alot of weight. ='( and she not the same with multitasking everything but im glad she still mange to remember everything.
well the video is REALLY good. she said at that time in the 80's/90's people were really into workouts.
the video was so easy and you feel it unlike the videos now it takes months to get that feeling/notcing the differances in your body.

now in school im trying to do my work in time iwas doing great till i went to an event i had to attend for the weekend and now im catched up but i still have to go back and redo mistakes. im glad my professors understand me. by talking to them and telling them im trying to pass the class, and get thourgh my learning disoder they gave me some tips to get through.

so thats why i haven't been blogging, vlogging, and everything. so sorry.
but still follow me on my youtube channel, twitter, here and soon a facebook page. =)

love always with peace,

Bonita =)

Monday, October 31, 2011

Happy Halloween!


tonight was no fun for me. =(
I miss the hours of trick n treating
and
I never got invited to a party.
Oh and I didnt go to Halloween Horror Nights ( i dont who could go and i didnt have enough money to go)
=(
Last year i was at my university as a freshmen Halloween was on a Sunday.
Saturday was the Party i went to 2
1) was a music party but that turn in kinda bad some people were getting sick
2) was when i went to the frat house to check on my roomate(i was being nice) and there was still a party but i ended up being the sober freind/ DP. =/ btw i should got paid.(jk)
then on sunday
since that was Halloween
my roommate and I just chilled in our rooms watching movies.
but this year no
Since i came home to go to school here everything is so hard to find out.
back at my university i found early if there was a party or even a get together.
No not here
it like im not here and people forgot i move back.
i mean i dont care but its just sad how i think about everyone but what about me??
i am not trying to make them think of me but if we are friends why not do what friends do.
even a hi, how you doing, or blah blah etc.
NO DRUNK TEXTING.
i got one from a person i never thought would care/remember and i thought wow how nice then no respond back then i realize oh its a stupid drunk text.


Here is my Halloween Costume

Meow =)

So Happy Halloween
OH well hope yall had a nice Halloween.

So Tell Me....

  1.  How was yalls Halloween? 
  2.  was this Halloween the best or worst the the others?
  3.  What are yall up to since trickntreating is over?
  4. What were you for Halloween? upload if you want. =)

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Its the season of being cozy with the breezy sun.



Its Fall!
Ihave all the season that mother nature have given us. Fall is probably my Favorite. where i live its all sunshine, breezy and where you could where a cute shorts with a quater sleeve shirt and still not complain how hot, humid, or how cold it is. its just perfect.

also its the season when everyone starts school, and watch NFL game.
this is also the type of weather that i like to call it the - the shy lovers season.
i call it shy lover season because this is the time where you and your crush or someone how like you just met you and you starting to get to know eachother. also the weather is perfect for dates on nice sunny fun day to a nice cozy aorund and watching a movie with a blanket at night.

there is more about this season i love.

my most favorite would be Camping. I never have time to go beacus eof school and stuff but i would LOVE LOVE LOVE to go on a camping trip.

if any of yall know or nkow anyone thatwent one a camping trip with random groups. where i could sign up for a camping trip with a group of people around the age of 17 to 25.( cause im 19 going on 20 in Dec.) anywhere in FL, GA, SC, or even NC. and that is not too expensive, fun . please let me know. i would love to go and if i do end up i would hope i could film a vlog.

anyways love the season?
tell what you like about this season =)

Video Day!

I have been busy with school and so on but i finally think i have a day or two in a week where i could make a video and edit for my channel and on here too. so Friday seems to be a great day for me to do videos beaucse i have no classes and my mom would be working so i dont have to be interuped.

My laptop is not working to record beacuse the mic is gone. im trying to see if someone who is a computer tech could help get it back so i dont have to keep going to best buy. meanwhile i will be using my camera to record. i used it before but hopefully works well then i thought. plus i found out that my laptop has an editing tab. wow i felt stupid thinking i have to buy an editing software but im not thier yet.
im going to be playing around with this week to see how it works and if it does the job i like then ill be a happy camper =).

So keep in mind that on Fridays would be Video day.

dont worry i would announce the Big Day! =)

Thursday, September 29, 2011

UPDATE!

Okay yall sorry about not posting any videos, twits, or clog/blog. I have been very busy with school and other things. Also i realize i was unorganized then i was when i was at my old school living on my own. now that im home and going to school near by i had so much stuff to catch up with like dance and helping my mom around the house/finishing the house project. i havn't had time to hangout with friends too ( how sad is that) i mean i chat with them on facebook ( btw they dont hate me because they have stuff in thier life to do too.) anyways i just want to UPDATE of what is coming soon. i can not say when but its coming soon so keep a look out. i thinnk i mention some of the topic i would talk about. so dont forget to check out my youtube channel Bo23phil.

so have nice day everyone. =)

PS

1) dont forget to follow me on twitter, youtube, and on here. i also have a personal facebook but im think about makiing a fan page so i post a on twitter, youtube and on here.
2) dont forget also to mention me to your freinds even guys once i get there but i have some guy freinds that like my videos.
4) can yall help me by coming with a name for yall. like dolls, yall, you guys, etc... that would be AWESOME! =)
3) i want to say thank for following and being patient with me. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!

Love you all always,

Bonita

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

I Going to Upload Videos!

Im going to upload a few videos thats going to explain some new changes in my life i want to accomplish. here is a list of what i well be talking about:

  • Money
  • Losing weight and getting back in shape
  • Clothing
  • Style
  • Handwritting
  • Speech
  • Im trying to Brag but i explaining how im mature more know. I was always mature and still have that inner childern in me, but Im 19 now, I need to show im 19 i will still be goofy. So come back in a while and ill post my Videos. =)
Peace, Love,

Bonita =)

Monday, June 13, 2011

Study Tips

For those who is going to be in school next fall, taking summer class, or wants ideas for studying. I'm going to blog about ways that i study. Before i talk about how to study i want to say that I have a learning disorder and im also dyslexic. besides having ADD ( i think everyone that are very outgoing have ADD) i want to share the ways i found easy for me to study that toke me forever to understand how to study. i realize i had get study skills, but i never notice because i was always doing activites, and sports. when i was little around since K- 4th grade my  would take me to McDonalds to study and do homework. you might think thats bad idea, but my did it for me to prize me for example, i would do all my homework, and study for 20mins then my mom would check my work and quiz me and if my homework is correct and i pass the quiz she would let me play in the playground, take me to chunk e cheese, play at the park, play at Discovery Zone, or go roller skating. Moreover, sometimes places like krispy kremes, pizza hut, etc.(just ask local place you like) would reward you if you have grades B average  and above. ( usally for grade in K to 3rd sometime 4th.) For those who are 5th - 6th i studied at home or again places like McDonald, however, instead of playing in the playground if i got my homework done and answered my mom POP quiz correct then i was alowwed to hangout with friends.
Now you might be wondering what happens if i dont do my homework, or get it done, got a bad grade on my test or got a bad grade in my report card.
not doing/finish the homework- Not allowed to go to my practice or to my dance lesson or both.
got a bad grade on my quiz- Not allowed to got to my practice or lesson or both and no hanging out with friends.
got a bad grade on my test- all the above including no cell phone, no tv, no computer, and have to do extra chores and study longer then usally.
got a BAD grade in my report card- ALL the above and pretty much like being grounded for a long time till i get my grade up.

My mom wanted me to stay above C adverage.
i had been since the 1st grade and then Jr high came along i only had 1D+ and almost got an F+ but that was the first have of the school. In High i was having difficult time and pass with a C adverage.
 then in College i went to a private University and well i was okay i never hungout much cause im trying to do my work and study but it got harder and harder and i only work 2hour twice a week. my mom thought i was out alot but i told her i wasnt i even asked my roommate to tell my mom i barelly hangout.i only went to three parties( the welcome back/ welcome party at the Big Frat house (the Signu), the Muisc party/Birthday Party, and two different Halloween party at the same night(music/frat).
 what happen is i was to busy tryng to do my work. by the 2nd semister i got my major swith from general studies to theater arts, class were easy i just had to type 3 essays about 4 - 8 paragraph every other week.  then only on the weekends i finally disided to got out clubing  twice a month, then every time before we go out we pregame aka preparty at the Frat house. since my roommate boyfriend is the bartender. and the guys are so sweet. even for bike week in daytona beach we all went together like if it was a field trip.

Anyways here are my Study Tips:

1. Study at a place you feel comfortable: library, panera bread, starbucks, fastfood, in your room, etc..( try some places and to cut off the nose wear you headphones/earplugs and play music)( Also with WIFI)
  - my favorite place is Panera Bread and if i get to my class early i would be sitting in the hall or if there is a study lab next my class i would go there to review or study.

2.  if your using a laptop use postnotes to help keep you in track. i even see people take notes on their laptop but also use you paper notebook. (have a Flash Drive to save your work, your be thankful)  some professor or teacehers dont allow laptop in class so ask before class starts)

3. Buy A notebook  to keep all your notes and work together.(dont forget to date and title and put you name on the page/paper) also( makesure you able to rip the paper out to hand in) Dont use the same notebook for all your classes. i use a 1subject or 3 subject notebook depends on the class for example my 1 subject notebook is for my math class cause our work is online so i use the notebook to take notes and do check my math since we cant use caculaters.

4. Buy  a Blinder/ Folders to keep you notes that you done on you notebook so you can collect you work. and use the 5 dividers to sperate them like:
  • Annousments
  • Notes
  • Homework
  • Quiz
  • Test
  • Study tips
  • Math
  • Enlgish
  • ETC.....
-you can have a blinder for one class and use the dividers your way or the teacher way.  if you want to use the blinder for ALL your classes first ask your teacher if they thats okay cause some wants you to have them turned in so you dont want science and english get turned in to your math teacher along with the math work.

- Folders ask your teachers cause i never used a folder except for math senior math class to keep our class notes in track so we could use for our test and for my econmic paper. otherwise i use my blider.

5. Pen and Pencils and erasers have EXTERAS

6. Highlighters to forcus on and  i have four: yellow   -  Import things or Must know. Green - a word i dont understand or sentence/ peom/ problem i dont understand or need more help. Pink/Orange either one i use to highlight the Must to know like the yellow but the details. and Blue - for mistakes on the paper or problem. you dont want to highlight everything like this

nwdfpndwnvdwv cw kwl vnwkv kwbkwnvkdn vckpw dckwdcwbcbweck bdscb sdmcslkcbapcb akcnaknc   j coi edpjemd wdmed wpdmwpie powejdmew di .

                                                 or

b cobcoj ojeq pjfmejiwejdpwehf0ie wjpehjwhfhoihdnf jnfe fwhdf0 wheg ihfhnekfeofhcih newjfh0ief   enfeoihwefibwefojbfi wfihnwefjnoi eifje ipewf ewojfmoiejf'weG WE'IJF

YOU WANT TO BE MORE LIKE:

Nnpisdv mvwkfnowekngpnvvklwnfpivnspknglkw,f oewfmefo ef  wemfmweof efmef woef wefwef efokwefjf fm foekg wegf wemoe woemf weg g wemfweofmw0-g.

Now you dont have to use my way make one for you and use different colors.

7. Color pens i have seen people use color pens to take notes or has highlighters.
like one half of the notes are pink and the second half is blue. my friend does this and i asked her why and she said it helps her not to get bored while take and reading notes but its not like a highlighter cause you can go crazy with color pens but not with highighters.

8. try not to get on facebook for me there is no point to get on facebook if there is no one to chat with so really its more like you creeping on their page.

9. Put your cellphone on silent or vibrate(that vibrates without people feeling or hearing it.) so you can forcus on your work. trust me your get done faster.

10. Review you notes before class and after to have it fresh in you mind. Also review notes that you just took.

11. When your doing your work take about 4 - 6hrs to do your work. if you have a class with your friend or your friends have the same class intead of hangout why not hangout by having a studygroup. i remember this gril in my hall had a study party for her music class it was fun first the had there study time then then made up games that is based on what they studying. she even invited us to join fo rthe party to see how much we know and teach about what they study. oone time the had a vocab words and they tried to make a rap song about it.

12. Study for about 4hrs everyday before your test or quiz plus you never know when your teacher gives you a pop quiz. practice you math and give your self a pop quiz or have a friend or you silbing to help you/ test you.

13. Eat good so that you have great mind set, healthy body and energized

14. Sleep my bed time for me since im in college is 12am if i want to study more or finsih up i try not to pass no later than 1:30am.
-highschool ill say 10pm
jrhigh- 9pm
4-6th - 7 or 8pm
K -3rd 6 or 7:30pm

15. exercise or have a sport or activite you like to help get in shape and get your mind active. doing activites helps both sides of your brain so you have DOUBLE the brain power.

16.chewing gum, peppermint candy, candycane, blueberry, cinnonmin, there are more you can look up online, but theses type of things are good to help your brain like cinnonmin help memory, blueberry helps focus.

17.  tutor are there to help its okay to be shy but hey im 19 about to be 20 and i still go to a tutor to help understand what im studying.

Hopefully these TIPS help you as it help me. i tried to combine want i used/do with things i had reasearch. if you want to know more go online or ask your friends, parent, silbing, or teachers what are best way to study and they might help you how to study. Before you know it  you grades are Blast off to A+. =)  here is my goal that what to share if it could help you.

my goal is to stay above C+adverage each semsiter but i really want to get As and Bs, but if i straight As on my reportcard then i want to have a week of Vacation with the money i saved up, or go shopping, or have a home spa. and by the end of the year if i get on the deans list the again ill have a mini Vacation.
If i get straight As and Bs for all my two years to get me AA dergree then i have a Vacation roadtrip but if i Get on the DEANS list by having straight As then with the money i saved up i want to travel the world.

if your in highschool try to get a goal to keep a high GPA if so join the Beta club, or if you and your teacher think your ready for honor class take it. and dont forget sports or activites them more on you application to college the better chance yourll get in.

same for if you in K-8th .

My MOST KNOW ABOUT TIP IS....

Dont say you cant do it always say YOU CAN DO IT. look at me 19 about to be 20 i have a learnig disoder and im on my second year on college. best of all talk to you teacher and ask them for help. my highschool teachers and my college proffesor from my other school all still care about and we still keep in touch and if im struggling i know i can always ask them for help. my mom who is 50 she still contacts her proffesors when she came to college here in the states, even though she already has 4 different bachlor degrees and 2 matsers. but beacuse here in America you have to Start from the bottom if you dont speak the language or if you wasnt in a international Univeristy(you have to know english).

if this works out for you leave comments below or share other ways to study.

Peace, Love, Bonita =)

ps have an inspiration like a board of your inpsiration, listen to inpiration music, or have a talk to someone you know that went thou hard to get want they want and ask them how and what inpsire them.

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

day 2 for my summer course part 1

so today i came to campus early haha as in 2 1/2 hr early. i was so bored. my class doesnt start til 11am. so i just sat on a one person couch and read my L.A. CANDY by Lauren Conrad. i had this book since maybe last summer (i think) and i only read half, so my goal is to finish and start the next book Sweet Little Liars.
i wish i could show how bored i am but i dont think i could take a webcam photo of me. plus i dont know how to work this Mac aka APPLE big screen computer. i like PC =) sorry apples lol. well to be continued....

Flooded before my summer course

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Sleep in then wake up to get a YOBE!

today i slept in till 4pm. ate dinner and did some workout plus walking my dog Buddy( he a golden retrevier i post a picture of him soon). Well after walking and seeing a storm coming i wanted to get a smoothie from Planet Smoothie ( Road Runner) instead i went to Yobe frozen yogurt( my favortie is the original with broken waffle cone, frutty pebbles, and rainbow sprinkles. yumm
my favorite =)
Now im watching a movie and then off to bed. Have a Great Night everyone =)

uhh i was trying finish up a good vlog but then mom burst in and didnt read the im vloging sign so i now can not upload my video plus i dont have a movie edit to edit that out so owell im going to one tomorrow. =)

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

First Blog

Hey check it out my first blog. if you want to follow me more check out my youtube channel youtube.com/bo23phil cant wait to start blogging.  =)