Another Comeback

So working at the bookstore (again) isn't that bad, at least I got job to be working at instead having to look for job while needing a way of payment to pay bills. I just felt blessed that they welcomed me back especially since they are in need of anyone who knows how they work.
Since I couldn't get to take the Summer B (our summer term is divided by 3 parts: Summer A is May to June, Summer B is July to August, and Summer C is May to August), so for now I'm taking a break till Fall term starts and just work right now. I can't wait till Fall term starts, you have no idea, I will be taking 3D design and Intro to Printmaking. I can't wait to learn about the media and see what I could do with them and what style I'm leaning towards. I want to learn many ways of Art mediums and see since I cant make it my own. Charcoal is still getting adjust to yet its my favorite for more control my patients.
Meantime, with the pay I'm is not the same as my other pervious jobs saving money is going to an extra challenge. Doesn't mean I'll give up nope, this is what I call another Comeback. For now I'm just working and focusing in finishing college for my BFA in PDP. I made a pin point idea of when I will finish and finally graduate: Between Summer 2018 to Spring 2019. I know right Crazy how its that long I could of gotten a Doctorates Degree by then. ( I'm still debating about going for my Master and Doc).

Have you even been in a situation like this?
What is your Situations?
What is your Comeback story?
If you could go back to redo any thing from a situation like this, what do you wish you  could of done?

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Its been awhile update

Hey everyone

I have been really busy to have time to sit down and blog or even to vlog on my YouTube Channel. Every time I tried I ended up wanting to just sleep. I know it might sound like an excuse, but if your a busy person you'll under stand. Beside working at my campus bookstore temporary and taking summer class, I also got involved in promoting for a local night club. I promote for them cause I go there often and since I have been going since August 2013, I got to know people to where its somewhat like a family. Since last summer everything has been changing mostly on friends, and now its still changing by avoiding negative  people. Others are either in a relationship, married, having a baby, have kids, or just doing noting. Its interesting how other outside of my "circle" and/or not Facebook friends notice I either need more friends or new ones. I think they meant I need friends who are somewhat has equal as me. working, in college, around the same age group, and more social. Also not always in drama, that is a thing that annoys me. Its always about someone, besides bring up the person for examples of what went bad or good is different than having to get them to move on /cut them off your life. Last thing about drama are those who are so negative, ignorant, and very unmannered; I never been so annoyed or uncomfortable around anyone who is always so negative that just beyond what I could explain, and someone who always just have no manners again I could not explain.  Another  reason the "outsiders" meant is because I'm still single, its sometimes hard to hangout with friends in a relationship because your single and they have a different view of fun. especially when you never had any experience of the dating ever (like me). Oh, and so no focusing on guys right now, when time is right it would happen.

Beside people, I trying to focus more on my studies, lately Ive been to distracted from drama after drama. I might seem MIA (missing in action), to them and they might think I'm ignoring them but out of all of my friends, I'm in school. again not an excuse but its true. they only know me for a few months but anyone I've known for years even since childhood/toddler knows me so well. School comes before anyone, no matter how difficult it is for me especially with my disability/disorder, and how social I can be. I might like being in school due to some really bad experiences I have gone through that No One not even my friends or Family knows, well besides my mom. I just enjoy better when I learn on my own or if there is a teacher/professor who makes the learning very interesting almost has if just meant for you to understand rather than being negative or just plain boring.
Lately Ive been struggling, so know I trying on my own knowing how to focus more in my studies than what is going on around me, Yes I get that easily distracted but its not always self discipline that helps (that annoys me the most when someone says this to me when they don't  understand not everyone could, some has to take medicine however I don't want to take a pill).
I feel like and was suggested by "outsiders" if I could have some friends that are also working, studies and social similar to me, I could be well balanced and not have so much drama besides just knowing when is everyone's free-time haha. Moreover, on the age as well, I am 22 years old till December 23rd, but again age doesn't matter unless your going bars or clubs (some are 18+ but the ones your actually dress for are 21+ only). 
The Last thing out of All That, I am saving money so I could move out to the student housing because commuting everyday sometimes three times a day every week for an hour is a ridiculous when that where your money goes to the most and having to get food when your out and about because if I make lunch and put in my lunch box, well let me just say with this heat it either melted, soggy, or spoiled ( ewww).  however, I am watching what I am eating and trying to get time to hit the gym, even if it for 15- 30 mins of cardio.

Basically, I am Focusing on Myself. By getting more focus on what is important to me than having to worry about others drama (they could handle themselves), Just know how to balance everything, and care on my health.

Are you going through the same thing let me know down below in the comments, Facebook your comments, or reply on the tweet. have any tips, advice or just want to share what your going through as well is fine by me.

Good Day, Everyone! :) (Update)

Hello everyone, how is or was your day?

I'm know its been forever that I've posted any blog on here. Got so caught up with my stuff that I forgot I had a blog. lol

Anyways i just want to share an update about what I've been going through.

keys: *I'll blog more about this later.

1. Got a New Phone: I got it because my old one got mess up and I could only call/talk to people by having it on speaker. (its bothers me cause I can't have a convo with my mom while it echos throughout Walmart.) lol Its also my Belated 21st Birthday gift.
   with my new phone is now a smart phone so I could finally do Instagram, since I always end up wanting to take pictures but I would always forget my camera.
2. Got a new Handbag: I saved up some money for other things but I really wanted was a new Handbag. I'm not a huge handbag shopping fan, I'm more simple and that could have my stuff organized and mostly comfortable. It took me forever to find one that fits my style and I though to start small too since I just need it to carry my wallet, cell phone, and other small things I would need through out the day.
   I saw this really cute handbag for not bad price. Its a perfect bag to start for me and its cute and simple the way I like it. here is the handbag I got Key-Per mini crossbody with birds.
3. Been so caught up with school that I haven't had time to hangout with friends. at this point I starting to to realize who my friends are by how they treat me when we're not together. otherwise most of them are married, have kids, have kids with their with/out their partner, or their dating/engaged to their partner and not want to hang out with cause I'm single. *
4. My eat habit is starting slow but I've been eating healthy more lately. Just need to put time for gym/workout to burn fat. Oh and been drinking more like Fish on Land. lol *
5. Speaking of eating healthy I notice my complexion on my face is not so blemished and pimpled. although I still have them from stress so that's seems like an improvement in my book. Of course my main rule to self is wash my face every day and night, and/or in between like after gym, swim,beach, after school before hangout with friends, etc... *
6. My hair is getting longer with this new shampoo/conditioner I started using when it came out and I'm in love. however their was a "new" shampoo/conditioner that relounged since it was discontinued when I was little. I used to use it and Loved how it helped my Long Hair then BAM discontinued. now the relounged with and its without silicone and I thought it would be the same as before. Sad news is its not the same and made my hair feel dried and straw/hay like. So I'm going back to the shampoo/conditioner that I started using. *
7. Fashion well Still haven't been shopping which kinda sad for girls then again I'm saving money, trying to lose weight cause nothing is fitting, and well to be honest no time to shop and no one to go with. lol*
8. Pampering myself is my life sadly and omg I can't believe that I'm going to admit this but I haven't gotten a mani/pedi for a long time. I only done maybe three times on my own. still not the same when having it done from a salon. thou its has its pro and con. *
9. Another pampering I'm still working on is improving on my makeup skills (Now girls you know we have our way of doing make up "togo/comfort way of how we do to our self) However, I want to make it look more sophisticated and not like a 7th grade who is still learning about how to but makeup on. Also exploring what look suits me like the cat eye, red lips, bronzer, blush, etc...*
10. Last about Pampering is hair styling I know I mention about my hair in number 6 but this is about the styling and I'm trying to trying  more ways for my hair to look uhmm good. like I'm not expert with styling my hair I feel like its horrible and never looks good. Most girls have their signature style hair in other words their goto style/comfort style. *
11. From Fashion number 7, I still trying to figure my goto/comfort signature style of fashion. Like I'm really open to style just its nice when a girl has a signature style like STATEMENT item from a piece of jewelry, hair style, hair piece, shoes, etc... I want to make it where it says Me from how my mood, music, the kinda day.*
12. Last is Music I'm so beyond forgot where I stand in music I love music I listen to all kind of music. I used to sing and play instruments like piano, guitar, violin, and flute. Now I forgot how to read and play music, my voice is way beyond out of tune to sing ( I sound like "that karaoke singer" at least I'm honest) Thank God I have friends that knew where I stood in music and are willing to help me go back to knowledge of music. its back to music 101 yay.*
13. Omg forgot to mention one thing is I'm so pale since I've been out in the sun for like ever because of college. I normal light to soft tan growing up but since I let to college I've got so Pale that my Dr thought I was going through another anemic (iron deficiency) which caused me before go pale. so this summer even through I have classes I made time for BEACH/TANNING. yay!*
14. Trying to Save more Money for me to have for future upcoming. like concerts, going on road trip, a NEW CAR, etc... since I don't work yet cause I'm in college I get paid for being in school and with my disorder and personal challenge its still hard for me to balance work and school. cause if I lose focus with school I'll fail and failing is not my goal. *
15. As far for Love Life, still single and really would be nice to have a boyfriend since everyone is in the Love life Pool. but I'm in no hurry (not desperate) since I figure that with all the things I'm going through I lose focus even thou I kinda do when I talk to this guy. lol *

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Halloween Ideas and Safety Tips!

What are your Halloween costume idea? Are you going trick or treating? and/or to a Halloween party? and/ or its possible your Birthday is on Halloween, so are you hosting a Halloween theme for your Birthday?

Halloween is not to far away. Oct. 31st. What I am saying is do you have a costume? Halloween is the best time of the year to dress up from crazy to tacky, or even classy. For those who don't know what Halloween is; It's a holiday that most of us celebrate by trick or treating, and etc... I have a link below so you could understand the holiday of Halloween.

The Wikipedia about Halloween

Besides watching scary horror movies.

Don't have any ideas of what costume to wear well here are some ideas I thought and that I also grabbed from the web. You could a DIY costume, go to a theft store, use whatever you have around the house if you don't want to spend alot of money, or you could be in a hurry on a last minute idea. Just use your creative imaginations.

For girls, we can go from cute to sexy. when your dressing cute and classy its being a little doll ages from baby to whenever, but for sexy (that is your more daring) which most operate age would be from 17 and up (like in if your in college)  is when the the costume idea with more skin showing like as if you were wearing lingerie/club wear (its best if you have a well shape body, just saying other wise you'll be miserable all night) in other words.

                   Girls

• Disney Princess
• Disney Character
• Queen
• Historical figure
• Animal
• Decade
• Cave girl
• Jungle girl
• Disco
• Hippie
• etc...
• Celebrity
• Witch
• Movie character
• TV character
• Vampire
• Cheerleader/sport player
• Baby doll
• Doll
• Cowgirl
• Pop star
• Clown
• pokemon
• Superhero/sidekick/villain
• Playboy bunny
• Mermaid
• Fairy
• Goddess
• etc...

For boys, you can do almost the same as girls, but without the cute, and sexy lingerie. lol. For cute which mostly when you little kid, but when you around ages 9 to 15 you would most likely what to dress scary to scare the girls. from 16 and up you dress more shirtless then ever ( you got to have the body for it, just saying)

                Boys/Guys

• Disney Prince
• Disney character
• Animal
• Decades
• Celebrity 
• King
• Historical figure
• Cowboy
• Firefighter
• Police officer
• Superhero/sidekick/villain
• Hugh Hefner
• Vampire
• Movie Character
• Pop star
• TV Character
• Jock/sportplayer
• Pokemon
• Monster
• Ghost
• Werewolf
• Clown
• G.I Joe or any other Military branch
• etc...

However, you can always do costumes with a twin, siblings, friends partner/s or with family:

                  With a Partner/s

• Movie Characters
• Rock, Paper, Scissors
• Superheros/sidekicks/villains
• the Addams Family
• the Munster Family
• Historical figure
• royal family
• Salt and Pepper
• Peanut butter and Jam/Jelly
• Switched Gender
• Taco Bell Sauces pack
• Wolf pack
• Pokemons/gang
• TV Characters
• Jocks/sports team
• Group band
• Monster pack
• Sherk theme
• Disney Characters
• Care Bears
• Click here for more Group Ideas
• etc...

Remember  you don't have to spend a lot of money on a costume, you can use whatever you have or spend less by going to a thrift shop. The more creativity and imagination put in to it your costume would be like a star in the night sky. 

Remember, always go with a partner/s like a friend/s, family/siblings, etc... , and don't for get your flashlight, phone ( if you have one, if not make sure the partner your going with has one), and you Candy Bag. I used a pillowcase.(best idea ever)

  

Safety tips

Halloween can be fun, but it can also be scary and people do thing on the Halloween night. 

Be safe, stay in your route/path don't go wondering off else that you not supposed to. Oh make sure you and/or your parent/s check the candy cause some people would give you old candy from two years ago or longer, they could also put drugs, mental, needles in your candy. 

For those who are going to a party instead of trick or treating, I suggest you have your wallet, cellphone, a flashlight, the address to the party (get there kinda early just to be safe), keys, and emergency kit for you and/or your costume.

Its best to get to the party early that way you don't get in a wreck or get super lost in the dark, a flashlight so you can use in case something happens in the road or at the party like a blackout. the emergency kit is having a little bag with safety pins, bobbie pins, clips, hair tie, sewing kit, tiny scissor, tampons/pads, your medicine and/or headache relief, oh and for those sexual active people don't forget condoms and/or birth control pills.  

Don't forget to have people contact number that you know would be at the party. AND a Number if you get lost or you want to leave early( that if you carpool) or to drunk to drive back Have a number that you can call them anytime for help. 

About drinking be careful what people could put in your drink. I rather be sober or bring your own(if your 21 and up) drink with a cap.  same time I rather be sober at a party I know I am safe, However, the down side is if your sober you know everything that happen at the party, your ended up taking care of people your friends with, or if something bad happen at the party and the cops came you end up telling the story of what happen. not saying its best to be not sober, but it does have its pros and cons.

Another thing is to be careful about is people do practice things on the Night of Halloween, like witchcraft and such... be alert about your friends if they have interest in it cause its bad news. If you don't feel comfortable say that you don't want to be involved and that you want to go home(you might sound like a party pooper, but you rather safe your life), if they start giving you hard time call your parents or someone you know that could pick you up, or if its get real serious call 911(they might think your playing around, so ask an officer you know and ask them "what if my friends or people I'm with decided to do something really uncomfortable beside drugs like witchcraft on Halloween night, do I call 911? like if gets to serious?" don't be afraid to ask).

#1 tip that tops the list NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER mess or use the Ouija Board. just for your safety.

and don't mess with witchcraft/voodoo. 

even if your playing Harry Potter just don't take it to serious.

That is all I would like to say about Halloween, hope yall like my ideas and safety tips.

If have any other safety tips, let me know down below. Don't forget to fallow me on my new Fellow me tab under my profile picture.

So what is your Halloween costume? Do you have a Fun Halloween activity you do? if yes, share, if not scary movies and trick or treating are the two. Comment below or share the comment on my facebook like page. :)

Have a safe

and

June Favorites

Summer is Here. I know its July already but I have some more favorites and its for the month of June. Here are some things I used.
*note: when you this sign (~) its means Video. once I get a fix/new laptop, I am going to share/show what the products are.
*note: I'm not promoting for any of these product, and I bought them with my own $Money$.


Lets get started:

 My cute new Piggy Bank. Its so me:) I love this and yes I put change in there (exepct for Qauters). Saving for whatever when its full. btw got this at Target.



 Must have. its smells yummy and its last allday even sweat/heat. perfect for school.

This is Water. if you watch Real HouseWives of New Jersey, your'll know why. (~)

I'm a picky person, but I heard this is really good. After having my own sample I drank the whole bottle. yummy and healthy. 

Finally got mine and LOVE IT! got mine from Ultra. my face has change from using your hands to using a brush.  (~)

 My summer hair product. Love Aussie. its going okay but i think my hair needs for a trim.



 My #1 perfume for 3years running. {I got so many complinments, and even from random smexy guys  ;) }  (~)



 Its summer and this sheet is a LIFESAVER. Musthave if you tend to have oily skin or even to much shine.(~)



its so Yummy and Healty best snack to have between class or car to somewhere.

April and May 2012 Favorites!

     So here are some things I Love that want to share. Each end of the Month I will try to show all y'all my Favorites. I would even do another blog/video on some on how or what i do with the products.

Note*I'm not promoting any of these products, I'm just share my my thoughts on them,*

When you see this (~) it means video. again I will try to make videos.

 Above is A candle I bought from Walmart. Its smells Pretty good like a fresh flowers. I would only light just to make the room mood feel fresh.

Above is Glade spring edition: Sherbet Sunshine.

Smells so very very Good I only light this to clean up the room. plus spray.

Even my mom loves that she would steal to use for the house. lol

Above is the New product that came from the UK.

Its My Most used and Favorite for my skin I used different wipes to remove makeup, but this one doesn't irritate my face. i also use to refresh my face after a long day/workout. (~)

 Above is Suave Dry Shampoo. Its drugstore price and I love the smell and it helps really good.(~)

Above is another Aussie Product, I been using this product since the 7th grade. this is like my FAVORITE. (~) 

Above is a Suave Touchable Hair spray. If you want to spent drugstore cash I would buy this. 

Above is Garnier : SleekandShine Smoothing anti- humid. milk/creamgel. Again this I been using since the 7th grade. LOVE it even My mom as one cause she would steal mine. lol(~).

Above s Neutrogena Mico mist airbrush sunless tan. in the shade med. #2, I also have it in #3. I used this before when I was a freshmen at my first college and love it. only twice i used this but now I'm waiting to lose weight to be more "smexy" cause i tried spraying now and i look like a tan blowup girl with bad tan. lol

I love St. Ives lotions I got this one for my daily use since i have dryish skin here in Florida and here its Hot, and when you have dry skin in hot weather it sucks. this help my skin feel hydrated and soft.(~)

Besides Kraft Mac and Cheese, I love this one above too.

I love tea hot or cold. since i was little razzleberry tea was my Favorite till i found this one that comes in a can and it cold. so now i have a nice cold tea for the warm weather here in Florida. and i can make my hot tea at home. plus this tea is not so sugary and i like it that way. and its for 99cents(US money) for a tall can.(~)

This  flavor is so good. I could drink at once but i like more slushy made. its to sugary. there is no Alcohol in this.

need help keeping you breathe stay minty fresh like if you were to a mint or mint gum and had water with it. love this flavor it works best after you brush your teeth or chew minty gum(same flavor) and you drink this cold. your mouth will smell, feel, and taste fresh. (kissing approved)(~)

A place where All Women can Stalk.

The Logo of the blog site.

          So the Title says it all there is a place where All Women can Stalk is a Site for Women (men can go on it too but its mostly for Women.) its call All Women Stalk, its a site that has Many Tips, Advices, and Infos blogs about anything from Diet, Beauty, Love, Travel,Wedding, Fashion, Parenting etc... I go on it during my free time. Love it. Plus its not just one woman who typed and post all the blogs, its multiple women. Yes, men can go on this site it might seem akward but they have a few tips and advice for men too.
           So during your Free time or when you get bored of Pinterest you should check this site out. You would be Wowed by the blogs, its like having Girls talk with friends, mom, grandma, etc about everything. The Weightloss, Makeup, and Motivation advice helps me and so far its helping and making me feel very happy. =)

From the Top:Pictures are examples one tip from way to do a spontaneous proposals,
the middle is a motivation qoute for exercising, and
the last picture is from the Makeup tips on Lipstick.

       Here the site just click on it, All Women Stalk. Enjoy, =) Let me down in the Comments below

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New Year, New Start, and New Me.

                After ALL I have been though in life it's crazy how I mange to not go crazy and check myself in a mental hosptial to get away from all the drama from friends, boys, family, school, and etc...

      I want to start fresh, so by the time I turn 21 years old this year '12 (Dec 23rd), I would feel better, and perhaps more mature.

Here are my changes that I started to improve on also starting on.

• Workouting and start eating healther:
• eat more salad
• go to the gym
• go running (i hate it but if i suck it up it might become my favorite thing.
• swim laps. i miss the water
• bike miles i love riding my bike
• drink more water
• more water, powerade, gatorade, for some sweetness unsweet tea w/honey, tea, few coffee, and  no soda unless it Zevia.(im going to talk about this soda soon)
• eat less red meat
• no dessert unless its a party, or a date(ha like this is ever going to happen)js
• frozen yogurt ftw
•  goal: lose 35 lbs. i have too. ( im 175)fyi
• if i want to eat out i wont go to any fastfood, but only if it the only place to stop to eat or when if hanging with friends.
• New improve style:
• hair
• instead of a few hair style i want to know how more and practice how to do them myself.
• beauty routine
• still trying to find a makeup look that well make me look good.
• etc..
• find what colors work with my skin tone
• take time in style i like
• i tend to wear whatever but i like how i was when i was little i used to mix and match but never tacky(unless it looks good then its the new style) lol.
• more vintage it in the blood and hey we look good.
• get Tan like the golden goddess i was back in 10th grade.
• it hard from be to be very pale it make feel sick not bad but sick like in health.

Im going to post a blog when i reach my goal. its going to have before and after pictures. =)

• improve my school work:
• trying to make my handwriting not only easy but clear to read.
• try to learn and say new vocab in my sentinces.
• speack clear
• be better in grammer( well i more of a freewriter im a pro as you can see.)
• study strategies
• more study hours
• time mangement
• get ahead in my work
• have a great way of planning things in my planner
• be more oranized
• get and mantain a good GPA. =)
• i learned how to sign when i was very young but now i only know a few. so i really want to relearn and keep up.
• also practice more of my spanish plus writing
• french again
• italian
• potugese
• cheerokee
• and my favorite i wanted to learn for the longest time of my life is swahili
• body language. i was told its kinda fun and interesting.
• make time to hang with friends
• at the beach
• in the mall
• movies
• hanging at the house
• etc..
• change my bedroom
• want to be simple and a bit beachy
• music:
• i love all kind of music but i starting to get into my father love of the rock'n roll.
• rolling stones
• AC/DC
• Twisted Sisters
• The Beach Boys
• The Beatles
• etc...
• also more club,house, techno mix music are fun.
• Saving Money:
• My weakness but im improving
• i used to be that girl that spend all the money i get.no joke. its sad.
• on a new Camera
• a "adventure" proof camera
• new laptop
• for college again. lol it life right?
• some extra for when i on my own
• travel
• spring break
• theme park
• going to Miami to visit my best friend and his friends =)
• road trips
• visiting family
• visiting place
• going places to support (Im hoping i save enough to go to D.C. for the girlscout event.
• concerts warped tour ftw. but i really want to go to more concerts tours
• shopping well once in a while not like a shoppaholic lol
• etc..
• donate for charity. =)
• take time for myself
• go to the beach
• movies
• out and around town
• stay classy, ladylike, abut i still have that sense of humor
• also have that touch "badass" moments.
• try to keep the 'know it all' to myself. i tend to saythings and the reaction i get are "do i really need to know but now i know thanks" or " holy crap, i wonder how she know about that if she seems 'dumb'."
• keep my faith to god more then before

       Im not saying I going to be a new person but this are just thing i want to improve my self that i notice need more tweaking. having a learning disoder, dyslexia, and stress. that not goig to stop is it . NO. =)
So when you have your own time think about what you want to improve not anything major but just a tweak. hey if it make you happy then you know it you. if you not liking what you tweaked there nothing wrong to go back to the drawing board. also ask your family, freinds or others what you could tweak on or not change at all. I am still that Bonita that everyone knows =).

this was taken on our back from HHN '10
this is my freak face. goodtimes.