Hi friend,
Where and how would should I start this blog because so much happened since well last I saw my post on here was 2019. Wow, like I had so much going on since my post that I wish I could have kept up with my blogging, I'll try to make it somewhat easy to catch up on:
2020 was a wild year we had (pretty everyone reading this knows) the COVID Pandemic.
2019 late: Best friend who got married gotten divorced: he cheated on her and was caught.
Current update on her: She's still working in corrections, as one more semester left in Radiation Therapy program (I'm so proud of her). She just told me recently that her new boyfriend and her are doing well and moving in. Don't worry I got to meet him and I really like him for her and he's way way way better like God send to her vs her exes/ ex-husband. I'm so happy for her :)
2019: Might be going to grad school after finishing my BFA in Art. or Join the Air Force as an Officer
Current update: No grad school. no officer. I currently work in the parts department of a dealership, I started mid-pandemic due to the bookstore was about to have a fall and I wasn't going to have a future there anyways. I like my job started as a porter (thanks to a friend/tech that got me a job here), and later with moral support I was able to step up ask to apply for parts position opened up (I was upset that he was let go and was not at fault over some other coworker drama). Here I am almost 5yrs in and Top of my parts team. I was planning on leaving because I wanted to do something better and more $$. I make good money like enough to be stabled but it's all paying loans and debt basically (trying). I was thinking about going to into 2 different fields medical or coding, we'll see because some changes is happening here. if it gets to much for me to handle because it's stressful that affects pay vs working with hours (I work commission but it relays on others to finish the work vs hourly.
2019: Wanted to go further with art like grad school for art in medicine or something but I realize it wasn't for me as much it would be nice to go for. I wanted to perfect my art because going though my degree was more a loop hole as well a stressful stress relief. (does that make sense?) .
Update: I miss doing art, now if I was to do art it would more like a stress relief or hobby (which I learned more watching Tiktok, Instagram, and YouTube now too).
2019: Re-educate myself. I felt like I was going dumb because I've been out of touch on a lot happening as well my math, grammar, other school subjects has been fading away in my memory. I wanted to learn from you tube or old school books just to refresh and keep my mind educated and well. I know this world is full of people who are grammar Nazi and some who a very poor in grammar. Someone like with a learning disability I felt like i wasn't challenged or educated well in school so college was a struggle. that's why I wanted to try to re-educate myself just to be at a good mental more mature mind.
Update: Still haven't tried lol. I'm doing some what better with just everyday work and life trying to learn and comprehend better. I even bought a book to read and i never made pass the 1st chapter. now I recently got the kindle app on my phone with audible to read and listen. I wanted a kindle but i told myself not until I read 10 books total (might even write a summery to share with my besties (they love reading).
2019: Wanted to vlog for YouTube because I thought I would have more time to since I would just be working and living life.
Update: Wrong I could have vlog but omg way to much even during the pandemic happen. I wanted a fun life instead I'm still struggle with a lot mental and finical. Was supposed to vlog our trip to San Diego Comic Con trip, that was a fail and that's another post I will have to do (hopefully). In 2026 October we are planning to go on our Japan trip and hopefully I have vlogging and photos read for the trip.
During the pandemic my mom was very lucky to have her breast cancer surgery just before Covid started like I two a week of FMLA to help my mom and then came back to work to be told 3 weeks later we are furloughed due to Covid pandemic for a few months. that how I finally took the job to be a porter ( it wasn't to bad and made way more money too {sadly it was my first fulltime time job for someone who was 29}). left the bookstore and was a good big change. I felt like now that I've been in parts I feel like I know what I am capable of. She's doing a lot better thankfully they caught before it was a stage.
We'll your girl is no longer single after all these years of boys being boys, I finally met someone who wants me in their life.
Of course our Grandmothers died within the same year too204-2025. both grandmas from our father side happen during our trip to San Diego. that's why the trip wasn't not going as plan. more to it than that.
We started dating back in 2021 late spring and now we are engaged back in July 2025 in San Diego!!!
Definitely God's timing too.
I went through 3 car accidents in one year, I'm okay just neck pain but seeing a chiropractor recently now to get back in my health life. I even gained 60lbs since the car accident 2021.
Trying to lose that and a few more too for the Japan 2026/ 2027wedding
4 deaths in the family between mine and my fiancé, 1 death of a neighbor who was so nice to my fiancé like a friend (He committed suicided, which my fiancé felt like he could have prevent it).
We went though a lot even losing jobs, finding a place to live, no money.
We are still battling our problems.
I could go on but I might have to another post. Hopefully I keep up with blogging. Sorry, I took so long to post here.
Also I might be getting into some online streaming soon as well I finally got into D&D with my besties. stay tune for more nerdy stuff.
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